Kids and Stress...
gets stressed from time to time. Different people feel stress in different ways.
Some ways of dealing with stress — like screaming, hitting someone, or
punching a wall — don't solve much. But other ways, like talking to someone
you trust, can start you on the road to solving your problem or at least feeling
taking these five steps the next time you are stressed:
Get support. When you need help, reach out to the people
who care about you. Talk to a trusted adult, such as a parent, other relative, a
school counselor, or a coach. And don't forget about your friends. They might be
worried about the same test or have had similar problems, such as dealing with a
divorce or the death of a beloved pet.
Don't freak out! It's easy to let your feelings go wild
when you're upset. Notice your feelings, and name them — for example, "I
am so angry!" And say or think about why you feel that way. Then, find a
way to calm down and get past the upset feelings and find a way to express them.
Do breathing exercises, listen to music, write in a journal, play with a pet, go
for a walk or a bike ride, or do whatever helps you shift to a better mood.
Don't take it out on yourself. Sometimes when kids are
stressed and upset they take it out on themselves. Oh, dear, that's not a good
idea. Remember that there are always people to help you. Don't take it out on
yourself. Be kind to yourself and ask for the helping hand or pat on the back
that you need — and deserve — to get you through the tough situation you're
Try to solve the problem. After you're calm and you have
support from adults and friends, it's time to get down to business. You need to
figure out what the problem is. Even if you can't solve all of it, maybe you can
begin by solving a piece of it.
Be positive — most stress is temporary. It may not
seem like it when you're in the middle a stressful situation, but stress does go
away, often when you figure out the problem and start working on solving it.
five steps aren't magic — and you might have to do some steps more than once,
but they do work. And if you can stay positive as you make your
way through a tough time, you'll help yourself feel better even faster. Ah . . .
it feels so good when the stress is gone!